that’s pretty accurate tbh
wait what happened???????
I PUBLISHED ALL THE ASKS I RECEIVED THOUGH all except one which i replied privately since the person forgot to put it on anon and asked me to reply privately
I’M SORRY TUMBLR MUST HAVE ATE IT UP I’M SO SORRRYYYYYY
i feel terrible now damnnnnn
DYOU WANNA SEND IT AGAIN BECAUSE I STILL WOULD LOVE TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR CRUSH :DDD
DUDE YOUR FRIEND IS HILARIOUS
shipping real people is hilarious tbh
no no no, don’t be sorry! my askbox is always welcome if you need to talk to someone or just rant :D
aww sweetheart, he sounds absolutely great! people who make you forget your shyness are the best kind of people to be around.
i’m sorry about the friends with benefits sort of thing, but remember - it IS just a FWB relationship, not boyfriend or girlfriend. FWB is supposed to be for fun. they’re not exclusive, and especially if this girl is possessive, then she she shouldn’t be since the whole point of a FWB relationship is no emotional baggage and attachments. and let’s face it, if he liked her that much, wouldn’t he be dating her?
personally, i think you should tell him about how you feel, and see where it goes from there! i know it’s daunting, but you have everything to gain, and if he doesn’t reciprocate, at least you’ll still be friends, right? you never know until you give it a go! :DD
I’M SORRY ANGEL that really is just a terrible situation to be in. and honestly, that guy doesn’t seem like he’s worth either of your time to tell the truth. what a jerk ):<
it’s good that you realise that you need to move on, but i know how difficult that can be. the main thing is to not think about him - occupy yourself with other stuff. go out with friends, go party and chill and relax and take your mind off this guy. give it time, and it’s the first step to moving past this guy who clearly just toyed with both you and your best friend.
good luck with everything sweetheart, and remember: distance and time is the key. who knows, maybe you’ll find someone much more worthy of your time :D
well, guys can be guys, and i know a lot of people act differently when they’re around others or in large groups. someone’s who’s hot and cold can really suck, especially if you have feelings for him.
i mean, it does seem like this guy has a case of not wanting to act the same way around you when around others, so maybe you should talk to him about it? help settle your mind (:
i do think that you should confront him about it. it seems like he’s being defensive because of his girlfriend, and that’s not good. confront him and ask him why he’s treating that way, and tell him that it upsets you and you don’t understand what you did to cause it.
however, if you don’t think you can trust him again…. well that’s a whole different matter. maybe you should ask yourself - is this friendship/crush worth it if he’s causing you this much pain? maybe you should take a step back and do what’s good for yourself, which might just be cutting these two out of your life? i know personally, there was someone who i stopped talking to, and immediately i became a lot happier on a regular basis. maybe that could be the answer for yourself?
oh my god i think i’m swooning this guys sounds absolutely delicious!! UGGGH SWEPT BACK HAIR AND 60S/70S LOOK PLEASE GURL
lucckkkkyyyyy hope you get to see him again!! he sounds like a huge eye candy!!
woah woah woah
firstly, let me say that her parents should’nt have done that. they had no right and that is a huge and extreme measure to prevent their daughter from dating someone.
you know what? if you’re old enough, go out and visit her! meet up with her again! your parents shouldn’t dictate who you get to see - it’s your relationship, not theirs.
i hope you do get to see her again sometime, and i’m so sorry this happened to you guys, but remember, your relationship has nothing to do with your parents. as much as they want to, they shouldn’t have the majority say on who you want to spend your time with.
good luck with everything! i’m gonna be right here and hoping everything turns out good for you!
(more from the friends with benefits student anon) I think the best part is how I know I can trust him without reservations, he had my back in a pretty pathetic moment at least once, and boy does he rock that ginger-ish beard. (he’s far from perfect and some of my friends find him unattractive, but I still enjoy looking at him, with all his flaws.) And you’re awesome for replying to our crush confessions, with that enthusiasm and warmth and good advice, rock on and all the best to you. <3
ahhhh oh my god that sounds so adorable!! first kissssssssssssssssss ahhhhehfjkahkdfjhfhadkghad
and dw, friends with benefits are great and it can be heaps of fun to just muck around and not worry about the emotional baggage.and who knows, sometimes FWB turn out evolving into something more ;)
dw what your friends think about his looks, you enjoy it girl and you enjoy it to your fullest!!
and ahhhh i’m just happy to hear from all of you and hearing about your crushes leaves me feeling so warm and happy inside i just ahhhh BLESS YOUR FACE THOUGH thank you you’re honestly being too kind and i am thankful that you think i’m not a terrible person xD
I WISH YOU LUCK IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ANGEL, HAVE FUN AND STAY SAFE! :D
… and the moment’s ruined.
you made me cry and i hate you so much and i love you you stupid idiot and i’m so glad you’re coming home because i miss you something crazy and i can’t wait to hug you with all my heart
oh man, i’m sorry! possessive partners in any relationship is always a bit of a downer, especially for people outside that relationship who have to bear the brunt of the jealousy.
i do think what you have to realise is is that his girlfriend doesn’t have any say in who gets to be friends with him, if she does, then that is not a healthy relationship and he should probably get out of it. i know that sometimes doing something can possibly lead to very unpleasant situations happening, but if you care about this guy as a friend, then you have EVERY RIGHT IN THE WORLD TO WISH HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
you’re not making a move on him, you’re not doing anything except wishing him well on his birthday. and if his girlfriend can’t handle that, then tell her calmly and rationally that she has no reason to be upset, and if she was a reasonable person she’d understand. if she doesn’t, then maybe it’s time to tell your friend to have a serious conversation with her.
personally, my opinion is: she doesn’t own him, she doesn’t own you. talk to him as a friend however much you want.
oh my god, that is so so kind of you!! i literally just sat here for the last couple of minutes with a huge goofy grin on my face! i try my best and honestly, reading all of these messages make me to happy to hear how wonderful all these people are, and you’re so so kind and wonderful and thank you for this message!!
god help me TALL & BROWN HAIR & GREEN EYES
DEEP VOICE TOO *silently screams*
IN A BAND *flails about violently*
annnnnnd SHUCK NO WHAT HAPPENED??? ):
you should pluck up that courage that you had and ASK HIM ABOUT IT. ask him why he stopped stalking to you and tell him why it confused you so much. and maybe ASK HIM OUT GIRL DON’T LOSE THAT COURAGE OF YOUR ASK THAT MAN OUT!!!!